Searchlight Logo
special_image

    • News
      • Front Page
      • News
      • Breaking News
      • Press Release
      • Features
      • Special Features
      • From the Courts
      • Sports
      • Regional / World
    • Opinions
      • Editorial
      • Our Readers’ Opinions
      • Bassy – Love Vine
      • Dr. Fraser- Point of View
      • R. Rose – Eye of the Needle
      • On Target
      • Dr Jozelle Miller
      • The World Around Us
      • Random Thoughts
    • Advice
      • Kitchen Corner
      • What’s on Fleek this week
      • Health Wise
      • Physician’s Weekly
      • Business Buzz
      • Hey Rosie!
      • Prime the pump
    • ePaper
    • Obituaries
      • In Memoriam / Acknowledgement
      • Tribute
    • Contact Us
      • Advertise With Us
      • Letters To The Editor
      • General Contact Information
      • Contact our Webmaster
    • About Us
      • Interactive Media Ltd
      • St. Vincent & the Grenadines
    • Subscribe
    • News
      • Front Page
      • News
      • Breaking News
      • Press Release
      • Features
      • Special Features
      • From the Courts
      • Sports
      • Regional / World
    • Opinions
      • Editorial
      • Our Readers’ Opinions
      • Bassy – Love Vine
      • Dr. Fraser- Point of View
      • R. Rose – Eye of the Needle
      • On Target
      • Dr Jozelle Miller
      • The World Around Us
      • Random Thoughts
    • Advice
      • Kitchen Corner
      • What’s on Fleek this week
      • Health Wise
      • Physician’s Weekly
      • Business Buzz
      • Hey Rosie!
      • Prime the pump
    • ePaper
    • Obituaries
      • In Memoriam / Acknowledgement
      • Tribute
    • Contact Us
      • Advertise With Us
      • Letters To The Editor
      • General Contact Information
      • Contact our Webmaster
    • About Us
      • Interactive Media Ltd
      • St. Vincent & the Grenadines
    • Subscribe
Pay cheque  Babies
Millennial Musing
December 4, 2018

Pay cheque Babies

We all know at least one dead beat mother who purposefully got pregnant for a man with the sole intent to trap him with child support. Unfortunately, we see this behaviour in celebrities and even our neighbours. The most obvious advice would be to teach men how to avoid vultures and gold diggers, however, there are some women who will do anything to have a rich man’s child. Of course, men should be more responsible, however, that doesn’t mean we can’t shame these women for their abhorrent behaviour.

I am keenly aware of the numerous absentee fathers we currently have in the world, but let us not pretend that bad mothers do not exist. It is obvious that the justice system is biased against men when it comes to child custody and child support, and there are some women who acknowledge this flaw and choose to exploit it. We have all witnessed countless instances of a women taking a man to family court to spite him out of more money.

The court system always assumes that women are better parents, which is untrue. There are many neglectful and abusive women who have full custody of their children solely because they have a vagina. Women are always perceived as more nurturing and responsible than men, and we must work to undo this bias. Unfortunately, there are many great fathers who are unable to properly raise their children because they impregnated the spawn of Satan. So many women use their children as a meal ticket to live responsibility-free for 18 years, while others prefer to use their child as a tool of spite towards their exes for moving on to a new significant other. Financial support should not come from one parent, particularly the man. If both parents are employed and stable, then the financial and child rearing burden should be shared equally.

Decades ago, women were completely dependent of the baby’s father, as they did not have equal access to jobs and financial freedom. The child support system was developed to protect women from losing custody of their children after a divorce. Imagine if you married a wealthy man and had his children. If that man divorced you, you’d have no means of income, because you’d have no formal education, nor legal right to own property. This was the life of women before the feminist movement. This is the reason why family courts are biased towards women. It was a system developed to support women who could not support themselves, through no fault of their own.

Currently, women have the same rights as men and access to education in most developed countries. It is time for the justice system to adapt to a changing climate. Women cannot fight for social and financial equality, while continuing to support a legal system which is biased against men. Men should have equal parental rights in the eyes of the law. I strongly believe that women who use babies as a meal ticket should be punished. Not only are you greedy, but you’ve brought a human into this world as your meal ticket, and no child deserves such treatment.

Any questions or comments can be sent to shantashaful@gmail.com.

  • FacebookComments
  • ALSO IN THE NEWS
    New Cabinet Takes Office in St. Vincent and the Grenadines
    Breaking News
    New Cabinet Takes Office in St. Vincent and the Grenadines
    Forrest 
    December 3, 2025
    St. Vincent and the Grenadines entered a new political era today as Prime Minister Hon. Godwin Friday and his Cabinet were officially sworn into offic...
    Two women shot and killed in three days in separate incidents, another missing for over three weeks
    Breaking News
    Two women shot and killed in three days in separate incidents, another missing for over three weeks
    Webmaster 
    December 2, 2025
    Niesha Frederick, an Ottley Hall woman, was shot and killed around 11.25 Monday night.  Frederick a popular face attached to the Sanitation Department...
    All hands ondeck-Dr Friday
    Front Page
    All hands ondeck-Dr Friday
    Webmaster 
    December 2, 2025
    PRIME MINISTER of St Vincent and the Grenadines (SVG) Dr. Godwin Friday, says his New Democratic Party (NDP) administration is open to suggestions fro...
    New Cabinet to ‘get their marching orders’ today
    Front Page
    New Cabinet to ‘get their marching orders’ today
    Webmaster 
    December 2, 2025
    THE NEW CABINET of St Vincent and the Grenadines (SVG) is expected to be sworn in today at 5:00 p.m. during a ceremony at the Arnos Vale Sports Comple...
    VAT free day later this month, says new PM
    News
    VAT free day later this month, says new PM
    Webmaster 
    December 2, 2025
    VINCENTIANS will have one day this month when they will not pay Value Added Tax (VAT) on their purchases. This was announced on Monday, December 1, 20...
    Dr Gonsalves intends to lead a firm opposition
    Front Page
    Dr Gonsalves intends to lead a firm opposition
    Webmaster 
    December 2, 2025
    FORMER PRIME MINISTER, Dr. Ralph Gonsalves on Saturday, November 29, 2025 during his first public statement since losing the November 27, general elec...
    News
    VAT free day later this month, says new PM
    News
    VAT free day later this month, says new PM
    Webmaster 
    December 2, 2025
    VINCENTIANS will have one day this month when they will not pay Value Added Tax (VAT) on their purchases. This was announced on Monday, December 1, 20...
    GG encourages inclusion in the wake of general elections
    News
    GG encourages inclusion in the wake of general elections
    Webmaster 
    December 2, 2025
    GOVERNOR GENERAL (GG) of St.Vincent and the Grenadines (SVG), Dame Susan Dougan, has appealed for an all-inclusive society in the wake of the 2025 gen...
    OECS Commission congratulates Prime Minister Dr. Friday and Government of SVG
    News
    OECS Commission congratulates Prime Minister Dr. Friday and Government of SVG
    Webmaster 
    December 2, 2025
    THE NEW PRIME MINISTER of St Vincent and the Grenadines, Dr. Godwin Friday, continues to receive congratulations on his elevation following the succes...
    NDP will descend, says former PM Gonsalves
    News
    NDP will descend, says former PM Gonsalves
    Webmaster 
    December 2, 2025
    FORMER PRIME MINISTER of St Vincent and the Grenadines (SVG), Dr. Ralph Gonsalves, has concluded that the victorious New Democratic Party(NDP) will de...
    Preliminary Statement from CEOM to the 2025 General Elections in SVG
    News
    Preliminary Statement from CEOM to the 2025 General Elections in SVG
    Forrest 
    December 1, 2025
    In response to an invitation extended by the Government of St. Vincent and the Grenadines, the Caribbean Community (CARICOM) mounted a ten-member CARI...

    E-EDITION
    ePaper
    google_play
    app_store
    Subscribe Now
    • Interactive Media Ltd. • P.O. Box 152 • Kingstown • St. Vincent and the Grenadines • Phone: 784-456-1558 © Copyright Interactive Media Ltd.. All rights reserved.
    We use cookies to ensure that we give you the best experience on our website. If you continue to use this site we will assume that you are happy with it.Ok