Searchlight Logo
special_image

    • News
      • Front Page
      • News
      • Breaking News
      • Press Release
      • Features
      • Special Features
      • From the Courts
      • Sports
      • Regional / World
    • Opinions
      • Editorial
      • Our Readers’ Opinions
      • Bassy – Love Vine
      • Dr. Fraser- Point of View
      • R. Rose – Eye of the Needle
      • On Target
      • Dr Jozelle Miller
      • The World Around Us
      • Random Thoughts
    • Advice
      • Kitchen Corner
      • What’s on Fleek this week
      • Health Wise
      • Physician’s Weekly
      • Business Buzz
      • Hey Rosie!
      • Prime the pump
    • ePaper
    • Obituaries
      • In Memoriam / Acknowledgement
      • Tribute
    • Contact Us
      • Advertise With Us
      • Letters To The Editor
      • General Contact Information
      • Contact our Webmaster
    • About Us
      • Interactive Media Ltd
      • St. Vincent & the Grenadines
    • Subscribe
    • News
      • Front Page
      • News
      • Breaking News
      • Press Release
      • Features
      • Special Features
      • From the Courts
      • Sports
      • Regional / World
    • Opinions
      • Editorial
      • Our Readers’ Opinions
      • Bassy – Love Vine
      • Dr. Fraser- Point of View
      • R. Rose – Eye of the Needle
      • On Target
      • Dr Jozelle Miller
      • The World Around Us
      • Random Thoughts
    • Advice
      • Kitchen Corner
      • What’s on Fleek this week
      • Health Wise
      • Physician’s Weekly
      • Business Buzz
      • Hey Rosie!
      • Prime the pump
    • ePaper
    • Obituaries
      • In Memoriam / Acknowledgement
      • Tribute
    • Contact Us
      • Advertise With Us
      • Letters To The Editor
      • General Contact Information
      • Contact our Webmaster
    • About Us
      • Interactive Media Ltd
      • St. Vincent & the Grenadines
    • Subscribe
Pay cheque  Babies
Millennial Musing
December 4, 2018

Pay cheque Babies

We all know at least one dead beat mother who purposefully got pregnant for a man with the sole intent to trap him with child support. Unfortunately, we see this behaviour in celebrities and even our neighbours. The most obvious advice would be to teach men how to avoid vultures and gold diggers, however, there are some women who will do anything to have a rich man’s child. Of course, men should be more responsible, however, that doesn’t mean we can’t shame these women for their abhorrent behaviour.

I am keenly aware of the numerous absentee fathers we currently have in the world, but let us not pretend that bad mothers do not exist. It is obvious that the justice system is biased against men when it comes to child custody and child support, and there are some women who acknowledge this flaw and choose to exploit it. We have all witnessed countless instances of a women taking a man to family court to spite him out of more money.

The court system always assumes that women are better parents, which is untrue. There are many neglectful and abusive women who have full custody of their children solely because they have a vagina. Women are always perceived as more nurturing and responsible than men, and we must work to undo this bias. Unfortunately, there are many great fathers who are unable to properly raise their children because they impregnated the spawn of Satan. So many women use their children as a meal ticket to live responsibility-free for 18 years, while others prefer to use their child as a tool of spite towards their exes for moving on to a new significant other. Financial support should not come from one parent, particularly the man. If both parents are employed and stable, then the financial and child rearing burden should be shared equally.

Decades ago, women were completely dependent of the baby’s father, as they did not have equal access to jobs and financial freedom. The child support system was developed to protect women from losing custody of their children after a divorce. Imagine if you married a wealthy man and had his children. If that man divorced you, you’d have no means of income, because you’d have no formal education, nor legal right to own property. This was the life of women before the feminist movement. This is the reason why family courts are biased towards women. It was a system developed to support women who could not support themselves, through no fault of their own.

Currently, women have the same rights as men and access to education in most developed countries. It is time for the justice system to adapt to a changing climate. Women cannot fight for social and financial equality, while continuing to support a legal system which is biased against men. Men should have equal parental rights in the eyes of the law. I strongly believe that women who use babies as a meal ticket should be punished. Not only are you greedy, but you’ve brought a human into this world as your meal ticket, and no child deserves such treatment.

Any questions or comments can be sent to shantashaful@gmail.com.

  • FacebookComments
  • ALSO IN THE NEWS
    Mayo Clinic presents 10 breakthroughs for 2025 that are transforming the future of medicine
    Press Release
    Mayo Clinic presents 10 breakthroughs for 2025 that are transforming the future of medicine
    Jada 
    January 23, 2026
    ● From AI powered drugs to regenerative therapies and new neurological tools, Mayo Clinic researchers achieved key advances in 2025 to predict, diagno...
    Passenger van overturns, injuring several commuters
    Front Page
    Passenger van overturns, injuring several commuters
    Webmaster 
    January 23, 2026
    AT LEAST ONE PERSON who was involved in an accident where a mini van overturned on Monday, had a clear premonition about the mishap. Deanna Mc Dowall,...
    Deputy Prime Minister explains delay of 2026 Budget
    Front Page
    Deputy Prime Minister explains delay of 2026 Budget
    Webmaster 
    January 23, 2026
    THE PRESENTATION of the 2026 National Budget or Appropriation Bill is being delayed as the New Democratic Party administration tries to put everything...
    SVG reviewing US request to accept deportees, Opposition Leader warns not to accept them
    Front Page
    SVG reviewing US request to accept deportees, Opposition Leader warns not to accept them
    Webmaster 
    January 23, 2026
    DEPUTY PRIME MINISTER St Clair Leacock, says that St Vincent and the Grenadines (SVG) is reviewing a request from the United States administration to ...
    Questelles students happy to be back in the classroom
    Front Page
    Questelles students happy to be back in the classroom
    Webmaster 
    January 23, 2026
    IT HAS BEEN over three weeks since the Grades 3 and 4 students at the Questelles Government School (QGS) lost their classrooms in a fire. Although a f...
    Government names new Diplomats
    Front Page
    Government names new Diplomats
    Webmaster 
    January 23, 2026
    A FORMER MEMBER of Parliament, and a Journalist, are in the group of five diplomats named by the New Democratic Party administration to take up postin...
    News
    Covid dismissed workers given deadline – backpay deferred pending review
    News
    Covid dismissed workers given deadline – backpay deferred pending review
    Webmaster 
    January 23, 2026
    PUBLIC SERVANTS who were dismissed for refusing to take the COVID-19 vaccine will not be allowed to return to their jobs after January 30, 2026. And, ...
    Rhea Ollivierre among new lawyers admitted to the SVG Bar
    News
    Rhea Ollivierre among new lawyers admitted to the SVG Bar
    Webmaster 
    January 23, 2026
    THE BAR OF St Vincent and the Grenadines (SVG) has welcomed a new cohort of legal practitioners, including Rhea Kezia Tamar Ollivierre, whose academic...
    Confessed grocery thief urged to invest in herself
    From the Courts, News
    Confessed grocery thief urged to invest in herself
    Webmaster 
    January 23, 2026
    AN UNEMPLOYED Redemption Sharpes woman, who relies on her daughter’s father to solely provide for their family, was bonded and ordered to compensate C...
    Hundreds flock to Lobster and Lambie Festival
    News
    Hundreds flock to Lobster and Lambie Festival
    Webmaster 
    January 23, 2026
    LAST WEEKEND, January 16 to 18, hundreds of people, including Vincentians from the mainland and the Grenadines, journeyed to Carriacou and Petit Marti...
    Committee Chair opposes insertion of fetes into Nine Mornings Festival
    News
    Committee Chair opposes insertion of fetes into Nine Mornings Festival
    Webmaster 
    January 23, 2026
    CHAIRMAN OF the National Nine Mornings Committee, Oronde ‘Bomani’ Charles, said he will oppose any attempt to introduce fetes during the annual Nine M...

    E-EDITION
    ePaper
    google_play
    app_store
    Subscribe Now
    • Interactive Media Ltd. • P.O. Box 152 • Kingstown • St. Vincent and the Grenadines • Phone: 784-456-1558 © Copyright Interactive Media Ltd.. All rights reserved.
    We use cookies to ensure that we give you the best experience on our website. If you continue to use this site we will assume that you are happy with it.Ok