Searchlight Logo
special_image

    • News
      • Front Page
      • News
      • Breaking News
      • Press Release
      • Features
      • Special Features
      • From the Courts
      • Sports
      • Regional / World
    • Opinions
      • Editorial
      • Our Readers’ Opinions
      • Bassy – Love Vine
      • Dr. Fraser- Point of View
      • R. Rose – Eye of the Needle
      • On Target
      • Dr Jozelle Miller
      • The World Around Us
      • Random Thoughts
    • Advice
      • Kitchen Corner
      • What’s on Fleek this week
      • Health Wise
      • Physician’s Weekly
      • Business Buzz
      • Hey Rosie!
      • Prime the pump
    • ePaper
    • Obituaries
      • In Memoriam / Acknowledgement
      • Tribute
    • Contact Us
      • Advertise With Us
      • Letters To The Editor
      • General Contact Information
      • Contact our Webmaster
    • About Us
      • Privacy Policy
      • Interactive Media Ltd
      • St. Vincent & the Grenadines
    • Subscribe
    • News
      • Front Page
      • News
      • Breaking News
      • Press Release
      • Features
      • Special Features
      • From the Courts
      • Sports
      • Regional / World
    • Opinions
      • Editorial
      • Our Readers’ Opinions
      • Bassy – Love Vine
      • Dr. Fraser- Point of View
      • R. Rose – Eye of the Needle
      • On Target
      • Dr Jozelle Miller
      • The World Around Us
      • Random Thoughts
    • Advice
      • Kitchen Corner
      • What’s on Fleek this week
      • Health Wise
      • Physician’s Weekly
      • Business Buzz
      • Hey Rosie!
      • Prime the pump
    • ePaper
    • Obituaries
      • In Memoriam / Acknowledgement
      • Tribute
    • Contact Us
      • Advertise With Us
      • Letters To The Editor
      • General Contact Information
      • Contact our Webmaster
    • About Us
      • Privacy Policy
      • Interactive Media Ltd
      • St. Vincent & the Grenadines
    • Subscribe
Let's Talk Sex
January 11, 2011

Anejaculation

This is a situation that occurs when the man cannot “come”. It can be situational or complete. Situational anejaculation occurs when the man comes in certain situations, but not in others, and is usually due to psychological causes. Complete anejaculation occurs when the man has never ejaculated and is therefore anorgasmic, meaning the man has also never had an orgasm, as in men, ejaculation and orgasm usually occur together.{{more}}

So, to summarize, anejaculation may be complete or situational, orgasmic or anorgasmic. The worst and most difficult to treat is the complete; anorgasmic anejaculation, in other words, “no come, no feelings at no time”.

To understand the “no cum” situation, one must remember that an orgasm and “coming” are very complex psychophysical occurrences, and like most complex situations, anything can go wrong at anytime. Like an erection, there are many steps to achieving it. They usually work cohesively and reliably, but when it goes wrong, it can be very hard to remedy. The psychological causes of anejaculation include:

  • Anxieties
  • Stress
  • Relationship distress
  • Religious guilt
  • Education/attitudes about sex
  • Fear of pregnancy or disease
  • Fear of defiling partner with semen

The physical causes include:

  • Surgery to the prostate, bladder or abdomen, which removes the prostate and seminal vesicles or damages the ejaculation nerves, as they pass near to the prostate or bladder.
  • Prostatitis, which is the inflammation of the prostate gland. In acute prostatitis, it is too painful to ejaculate and in chronic prostatitis, the prostatic and ejaculatory ducts are blocked.
  • Conditions affecting the nervous system, such as Parkinson’s disease, Multiple Sclerosis, Diabetes and Spinal cord injuries
  • Partial or complete blocking to the urethra (urine passage).

Medications like those used to treat psychiatric disorders are also a cause of anejaculation. Interestedly, removing the testicles or castration does not cause ejaculation problems.

Treatment of the problems depends on whether the couple wants to achieve a pregnancy or not. If fertility is not an issue, then no treatment is necessary unless the man is not having an orgasm and wants to achieve one. For couples that want to achieve a pregnancy, the psychosexual counseling is paramount, as the vast majority of causes are psychological. This includes treating relationship anxieties, fear of pregnancy and religious guilt. Issues of exposure and guilt are addressed in men who cannot ejaculate with their partner, but who can do it when masturbating alone (situational).

Physical problems like prostatitis and medication induced anejaculation can be easily treated with antibiotics and stopping or changing the medication respectively. The results of treatment for physical causes are good, but physical causes are only a small fraction of the main causes of anejaculation. Patients who have neurological problems like spinal cord injuries, diabetes and multiple sclerosis may be helped to achieve ejaculation, and hence pregnancy, with the aid of vibrators made specifically for the penis, and when this fails, electroejaculation. I mentioned this last week in my previous article. Electroejaculation is the use of electricity (5-10 volts) to stimulate the prostate and seminal vesicles to contract. The procedure is done with the patient anaesthetized, as it is painful! This is not done for pleasure, as some perverted minds may assume. This is a medical procedure, in which a lubricated probe is placed on the prostate and seminal vesicles rectally, and electricity is used to produce an ejaculation. The ejaculate is collected and the sperm used to achieve fertilization. Next week we will look at fertility issues in men.

For comments or question contact:

Dr. Rohan Deshong
Tel: (784) 456-2785
email:deshong@vincysurf.com

  • FacebookComments
  • ALSO IN THE NEWS
    Lawyer Grant Connell, Police Commissioner seemingly mend fences
    Front Page
    Lawyer Grant Connell, Police Commissioner seemingly mend fences
    Webmaster 
    May 12, 2026
    LAWYER GRANT CONNELL, will not be pursuing legal action against Commissioner of Police (COP) Enville Williams as the two professionals appear to have ...
    SVG/Cuba Friendship Society hands over donation for Cuba
    Front Page
    SVG/Cuba Friendship Society hands over donation for Cuba
    Webmaster 
    May 12, 2026
    THE SVG-Cuba Friendship Society delivered a donation of EC$19,000 for the Cuban people as part of a humanitarian initiative promoted by the organizati...
    Front Page
    CPEA set for May 13 and 14
    Webmaster 
    May 12, 2026
    THE ANNUAL Caribbean Primary Exit Assessment (CPEA) for students of Grade-6 is scheduled for May 13 and 14, 2026. A total of 1766 students will sit th...
    Another former national footballer shot, killed
    Front Page
    Another former national footballer shot, killed
    Webmaster 
    May 12, 2026
    FIVE YEARS after national football goalkeeper Dwaine “Tall Man” Sandy was shot and killed in Calliaqua, the East St. George constituency was once agai...
    Mixed package rolled out at 2026 North Leeward Carnival launch
    Front Page
    Mixed package rolled out at 2026 North Leeward Carnival launch
    Webmaster 
    May 12, 2026
    NORTH LEEWARD OFFICIALLY launched its 2026 Carnival on Saturday, April 9, 2026, at the Chateaubelair Playing Field under the theme “Lil Mas AhYard,” h...
    Grenadines residents promised a consistent supply of water
    Front Page
    Grenadines residents promised a consistent supply of water
    Webmaster 
    May 12, 2026
    MINISTER OF POST SECONDARY EDUCATION, Terrance Ollivierre, who also has responsibility for Grenadines Affairs, has assured residents of the Grenadines...
    News
    SVG passports ranked 19th Globally
    News
    SVG passports ranked 19th Globally
    Webmaster 
    May 12, 2026
    AS OF APRIL, 2026, the St.Vincent and the Grenadines passport is ranked 19th globally with a mobility score of 146–157 on the Henley Passport Index 20...
    Fire Chief urges more care to prevent house fires, bush fires
    News
    Fire Chief urges more care to prevent house fires, bush fires
    Webmaster 
    May 12, 2026
    FIRE CHIEF and Superintendent in the Royal St Vincent and the Grenadines Police Force (RSVGPF), Markneal Ellis, has expressed concerns about the numbe...
    Campden Park woman given suspended sentence for wounding
    From the Courts, News
    Campden Park woman given suspended sentence for wounding
    Webmaster 
    May 12, 2026
    A CAMPDEN PARK WOMAN was given a suspended sentence for wounding another woman who was now in an intimate relationship with her former boyfriend. Reio...
    Child Month activities buttressed by prayer
    News
    Child Month activities buttressed by prayer
    Webmaster 
    May 12, 2026
    THE MINISTRY OF EDUCATION launched Child Month, 2026, with a prayer Breakfast, under the theme, “I belong.You belong.We all belong”. Celebrated annual...
    Government to soon unveil ‘Love SVG’ initiative
    News
    Government to soon unveil ‘Love SVG’ initiative
    Webmaster 
    May 8, 2026
    Minister of Tourism, Civil Aviation, and Sustainable Development, Kishore Shallow, announced that a new initiative titled “Love SVG” will soon be impl...

    E-EDITION
    ePaper
    google_play
    app_store
    Subscribe Now
    • Interactive Media Ltd. • P.O. Box 152 • Kingstown • St. Vincent and the Grenadines • Phone: 784-456-1558 © Copyright Interactive Media Ltd.. All rights reserved.
    We use cookies to ensure that we give you the best experience on our website. If you continue to use this site we will assume that you are happy with it.Ok