Should I share my man?
Hey Rosie ,
I have a problem, my boyfriend is still seeing his ex and he doesn’t hide it from me. One day I caught them having lunch together and I was so upset, but do you know what he did? He invited me to join them and said there was enough of him to go around! I told him that he had to make a choice and he said he didn’t see why he has to. He said he was going to give me some time to cool off and think about what I was asking him to do! Rosie, I think he’s fine, but I don’t think he’s worth all that. Should I share my man?
Truthfully, I’m wondering why you’re confused? How is it that you are even giving his offer any thought?
Tell me something, did you suspect that he had another woman all along? Or was this a total surprise? I just found it strange that he was comfortable enough to invite you to sit down with them and then give you an ultimatum! He’s very full of himself !
Only you can decide what you are willing to put up with and it sounds as though you don’t want to do what he has offered. So be true to yourself and let him know where you stand, also be willing to walk away. There are too many options out there for you! You shouldn’t be put into this vulnerable position…Ever!! Stand strong my friend, tell him you have no interest in what he’s selling. Good luck!