… Put your wedding on hold. Marriage is not a game!
Hey Rosie
I am getting married very soon to my fiance who I love so much and who I know loves me too, and I can trust.
Before my fiance, I was with this guy who I loved so much, but I made one mistake creating a fake Facebook account because I couldnât trust him.{{motr}} However, he found out, and after I told him, we had a break up. We got together again for a second time, but he never appreciated my love, so I had to end the relationship myself.
Now I am with my fiance, everytime my ex boyfriend speaks to me, I fall in love with him. I donât like this because I rather my fiance, and donât want to lose my fiance like that. Seriously I donât know what to do.
I need some advice
Dear I need some advice,
Right off the bat, you have to put your wedding on hold. Marriage is not a game! You are having major issues with trust, and also infidelity. Even though you may not be sleeping with your ex, you are emotionally involved and that sometimes is even more dangerous!
If you couldnât trust your ex back then, which led you to create a fake Facebook account, then what has changed since? He is already proving that he canât be trusted because heâs now cheating with you. So, if heâs doing this with you, you KNOW heâs also fooling around with someone else, right?
Then you are equally wrong because you are about to marry your fiancé, but you are fantasizing about your ex? Come on! You have to examine your feelings and what it is that makes you first of all cheat on your husband to be, in addition to being the type of person who would get caught up in a very dangerous triangle like this? You must know that this WILL not end well, playing with peopleâs emotions isnât cool and the results are never good.
So I will repeat what I said, I would postpone the wedding. I really donât care if the dress is bought, the hall is booked and the fruits are being soaked for the cake. Postponing the wedding is much simpler than starting out a new life together with your spouse based on a lie. Maybe the pastor who is marrying you can be your counselor? Or if that is too embarrassing, then you can go to a professional counseling place?
The bottom line is your marriage will be doomed before it begins. Thatâs real talk.
I really only wish you the best, so you should want the same for yourself.
Rosie
Send questions to Rosie at: heyrosie24@yahoo.com or P.O Box 152, Kingstown, St. Vincent & the Grenadines.
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