I love him but he has a girlfriend
Hey Rosie,
Iâm in love with a boy for 5 months now and he has a girlfriend, but he tells me he doesnât love her and heâs trying not to hurt her feelings. For the past 2 months, this boy and I have been going out and stuff like that. I was wondering if I should stick with him or move on with my life (which I donât want).{{more}} He said that he loves me…and I was thinking of staying with him. I love him and I donât want to move on.
Lil advice here
Dear Lil advice here,
Forgive me, but it sounds like youâve made up your mind already! Do you think that I am going to say: âStick it out, he sounds like a winner?â I think you already know that you shouldnât hold your breath. He is u-s-i-n-g you! Plain and simple. He is having his cake and eating it, too.
You know that this isnât the best situation for you. But you blindly are going along for the ride. Why? Arenât there other worthy young men out there besides this guy? He has a girl, but he is cheating on her with you! You are the other woman. He says he loves you. Please, those are just empty words. Run, donât walk away from this situation! You are setting yourself up to be hurt. Arenât you worth more than this?
He isnât going to leave his girlfriend. You are going to feel really crappy in a little while. Before this gets further out of hand, end it now. I know this isnât what you want to hear. But I am here to support you in doing the best for yourself. Not to be your âyes manâ. Do the right thing.
Rosie
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