Searchlight Logo
special_image

    • News
      • Front Page
      • News
      • Breaking News
      • Press Release
      • Features
      • Special Features
      • From the Courts
      • Sports
      • Regional / World
    • Opinions
      • Editorial
      • Our Readers’ Opinions
      • Bassy – Love Vine
      • Dr. Fraser- Point of View
      • R. Rose – Eye of the Needle
      • On Target
      • Dr Jozelle Miller
      • The World Around Us
      • Random Thoughts
    • Advice
      • Kitchen Corner
      • What’s on Fleek this week
      • Health Wise
      • Physician’s Weekly
      • Business Buzz
      • Hey Rosie!
      • Prime the pump
    • ePaper
    • Obituaries
      • In Memoriam / Acknowledgement
      • Tribute
    • Contact Us
      • Advertise With Us
      • Letters To The Editor
      • General Contact Information
      • Contact our Webmaster
    • About Us
      • Interactive Media Ltd
      • St. Vincent & the Grenadines
    • Subscribe
    • News
      • Front Page
      • News
      • Breaking News
      • Press Release
      • Features
      • Special Features
      • From the Courts
      • Sports
      • Regional / World
    • Opinions
      • Editorial
      • Our Readers’ Opinions
      • Bassy – Love Vine
      • Dr. Fraser- Point of View
      • R. Rose – Eye of the Needle
      • On Target
      • Dr Jozelle Miller
      • The World Around Us
      • Random Thoughts
    • Advice
      • Kitchen Corner
      • What’s on Fleek this week
      • Health Wise
      • Physician’s Weekly
      • Business Buzz
      • Hey Rosie!
      • Prime the pump
    • ePaper
    • Obituaries
      • In Memoriam / Acknowledgement
      • Tribute
    • Contact Us
      • Advertise With Us
      • Letters To The Editor
      • General Contact Information
      • Contact our Webmaster
    • About Us
      • Interactive Media Ltd
      • St. Vincent & the Grenadines
    • Subscribe
Community Opinion
March 23, 2012

Should multiple sexual partners know about each other?

Members of the public were asked this question. “If a person is “dating around” and has multiple sexual partners, should the people that he or she is seeing know about each other?”

First I must say that it was a hard task getting interviews on this issue. It seems like a touchy topic for a lot of people (hmmm), and I want to applaud the people who were brave enough to openly give their opinion.

Here are their views:

Ayodele Pompey: From the outset. I don’t believe any person should have multiple sexual partners. Making a decision on whether or not they should tell their partners is a decision that I don’t think should have to be made, because on the most fundamental level it is wrong.
 

Josielle Primus: I personally don’t believe in having multiple partners, I don’t condone it. However, in a situation like that, if he alerts the female, she can know what to expect if she sees him with other people, but if she isn’t aware it can cause conflict. She has to be aware so she can know if she’s comfortable with it.

 
 
 
Jeffery Burgin: If you do make people aware of the situation at the beginning, then they would know what to expect and won’t be upset when they see you with other people. It is also beneficial because you can contract and share sexually transmitted diseases easier. On the other hand, it can cause problems with your relationship with the others, so if you don’t tell them about each other, then they might not feel upset when they see you with other people; they might assume you’re just friends.

Tamika Foyle: I think they should know. You should want to know in order to protect yourself emotionally and physically.

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Laferne Fraser: In such a situation, honesty is important so that the limit of the relationship would be understood. Honesty allows you to protect yourself emotionally and physically and prevents feelings of betrayal and disrespect. Honesty is also important in respecting the other person’s right to choose whether they want to stay in such a relationship or leave.

Samantha Diamond: If I am telling you truthfully what is going on, I expect the same from you, so I could protect myself and so on.
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

Vilma Ollivierre: If you are not in a committed relationship I might not care, but if I do care I would like to know so I can get out of the situation.

  • FacebookComments
  • ALSO IN THE NEWS
    Park Hill man wins massive lottery jackpot
    Front Page
    Park Hill man wins massive lottery jackpot
    Webmaster 
    April 24, 2026
    A RESIDENT of Park Hill, Gevannie Blake, received more than one million dollars in the National Lotteries Authority (NLA) Lotto draw held on April 14,...
    Minister claims computers in New York consulate wiped
    Front Page
    Minister claims computers in New York consulate wiped
    Webmaster 
    April 24, 2026
    WHO WIPED the computers at St Vincent and the Grenadines’ (SVG) consulate in New York (NY) is just one of the issues currently being investigated by t...
    Government back-pedals on Constitution
    Front Page
    Government back-pedals on Constitution
    Webmaster 
    April 24, 2026
    THE NEW DEMOCRATIC PARTY administration of Dr. Godwin Friday, has pulled back from presenting a bill to Parliament to amend the Representation of the ...
    John Clyde Fitzpatrick jailed for molesting boy
    Front Page
    John Clyde Fitzpatrick jailed for molesting boy
    Webmaster 
    April 24, 2026
    HIS MAJESTY’S PRISON (HMP) will now tbe he home, for the next two years, seven months at least, of convicted sex offender 65-year-old retired mathemat...
    Two non-nationals on cocaine charges
    Front Page
    Two non-nationals on cocaine charges
    Webmaster 
    April 24, 2026
    A VENEZUELAN and a Grenadian man have been charged with illegally possessing, trafficking and attempting to import 434,268 grammes of cocaine into St ...
    ‘Missing houses’ under probe says Minister
    Front Page
    ‘Missing houses’ under probe says Minister
    Webmaster 
    April 24, 2026
    THE MINISTRY of Housing has handed over to the Ministry of National Security, information aimed at investigating some of the housing contracts issued ...
    News
    Vincentian footballer shot to death in St Kitts
    News
    Vincentian footballer shot to death in St Kitts
    Webmaster 
    April 24, 2026
    THE MOTHER of Shamarie ‘Boy Boy’ Baptiste, a 22-year-old Vincentian footballer who was shot dead earlier t his week in the Federation of St Kitts and ...
    Energy Mas Band presents Holidays in SVG for VincyMas
    News
    Energy Mas Band presents Holidays in SVG for VincyMas
    Webmaster 
    April 24, 2026
    VINCYMAS 2026 will be graced with a presentation of seven holidays that are currently observed by Vincentians. This is the focus of the production of ...
    Former Diplomat debuts crime novel
    News
    Former Diplomat debuts crime novel
    Webmaster 
    April 24, 2026
    CARLISLE RICHARDSON has promised to feature the Caribbean on an international scale with his debut novel, ‘The Soft Underbelly.’ Richardson is a St Ki...
    Bread van helped avert tragic accident at Gordon Yard
    News
    Bread van helped avert tragic accident at Gordon Yard
    Webmaster 
    April 24, 2026
    A ‘BREAD VAN’ is said to have averted a potentially fatal accident that occurred on Monday, April 20, 2026, in GordonYard, North Leeward that also inv...
    Man who had clean record jailed for possession of illegal gun, ammo
    News
    Man who had clean record jailed for possession of illegal gun, ammo
    Webmaster 
    April 24, 2026
    DESPITE BEING COMMENDED for not getting in conflict with the law for over four decades, a Campden Park man was reminded that his actions have conseque...

    E-EDITION
    ePaper
    google_play
    app_store
    Subscribe Now
    • Interactive Media Ltd. • P.O. Box 152 • Kingstown • St. Vincent and the Grenadines • Phone: 784-456-1558 © Copyright Interactive Media Ltd.. All rights reserved.
    We use cookies to ensure that we give you the best experience on our website. If you continue to use this site we will assume that you are happy with it.Ok