My bestie’s man is cheating with my cousin

Hey Rosie,

This is a little embarrassing, but I think that my bestie’s man is cheating with my cousin. How I found out is that they sent pictures in a group text, thinking it was just two of them, but I was on it too. Rosie, they were sending naked selfies and a lot of flirting. I was shocked! So much so I kept quiet on the text and kept reading! Eventually, I think they saw my name and the texts stopped! Rosie, I could die! I’ve seen my cousin since the text and she is pretending it didn’t happen and avoids me!

Look, I want to confront her, because I think this is foul. She is good friends with my bestie as well and I can’t believe she’s doing this. We aren’t like this! What to do? What to do?

Help!

Dear Help!

Oh my goodness! You are caught up in a vortex of deceit and drama, my friend! Poor you !

Now, you have some important decisions to make; do you tell your bestie about her man and your cousin? Or do you confront both of them confirming that you were on the text and saw all of their sordid communications?  

Either way, something has to be done. I’m actually leaning towards the latter, so they can do the right thing and come clean.  

I don’t envy your predicament; it is a sticky place to be. Good luck with whatever you choose to do!

Rosie

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