Hey Rosie!
February 17, 2017

Fallen out of love with my husband…

Hey Rosie,

I’ve been married for over 15 years and I have fallen out of love with my husband. I can’t even stand to see him eat, hear him laugh or just be in the same room! All of the things he used to do that I thought were cute just simply get me so angry, it’s hard to be civil. He, on the other hand, is still a very nice man to me, even when I am mean and shout. He just asks why are you always so angry? Even our kids do, as well. I feel as though I am stuck and can do better. Can I just leave? I want to go, but I think of him and the family; we have a good life and this would be a huge upset.

It’s over

Dear It’s over,

 
Well, I think you’ve said it all. Why are you staying – truthfully? There is no need to put everyone through all of this anxiety and discomfort. But I have to wonder why you are feeling this way.

Are you seeing someone else? Flirting perhaps with a co-worker? What started these feelings? If you can’t be real with me, at least be real with yourself. Remember, happiness is not found over the fence, but from within. I would STRONGLY suggest that you seek some serious counselling and hash out all of your hidden anger and turmoil which you are directing towards your husband.

If after all of the soul searching you are in the same “space,” then sit your hubby down and tell him… it’s the right thing to do. I truly think you have some hidden turmoil that is coming to the surface… it needs addressing.

Good Luck!

Rosie

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